Well, we are four days out now. Ron is in Atlanta at the Catalyst Conference. We would have left earlier than this week, but this conference is very important to Ron and is the perfect kick off for the spiritual aspect of his Sabbatical. There are a few things we covet your prayers for. Some of them are kind of silly, others are very serious, but because we are God’s children, they are all very, very important to Him.
1. Safety. Of course, this is obvious. We are going to be traveling a lot of miles in a 30 foot beast of a vehicle towing a mini-van. Ron is an extremely good driver and could drive anything. I had a hard time getting used to the minivan when we got it. This means Ron will do most of the driving because I just don’t feel comfortable driving the motorhome. Also, if you know our boys you know that they have no fear. As a mother the thought of them around busy city streets, cliffs, rattlesnakes, bears, boiling springs, geysers, high tides, and great big holes in the ground is a little nerve wrecking.
2. Peace. As exciting as this trip sounds, there is the reality that five individuals will be living in very close quarters for sixty days. At the end of those sixty days there will be seven and possibly nine of us since my parents are meeting us in Las Vegas for the last two weeks and Ron’s parents are thinking about meeting us somewhere around there or at the Grand Canyon. That is a lot of different people with a lot of opinions. And sometimes the, “whatever you want to do’s” are worse than the, “but I wanted to do’s.” This people pleaser gets run to a frazzle trying to make sure everyone is happy and then when it can’t be done, gets angry and frustrated because it can’t be done and then no one is happy.
3. Southwind. We love our motorhome, really we do. When we bought it two years ago it was with this trip in mind and it was what we could reasonably pay off quickly. Plus we knew the previous owners and trusted them. The reality is it is twenty years old. If it falls apart before we get to Seattle, all bets are off. We will be coming back home because we cannot just go get a new one. The church bus had some major issues this past summer that were discovered mostly on the youth groups trip to Mexico. It wasn’t the trips that broke the bus, it was just that it is not driven every day, so when something is going to break down the only opportunity for anyone to notice the problem is on a big trip when it is being driven. The same thing applies to the motorhome.
4. School. While we will be going to a lot of museums and national parks, we still can’t call this a field trip everyday. The state requirements for homeschooling are that we have to do 180 days of school for four hours a day. (Something like that, I’m not looking up this late at night.) If we did not do anything at all with our curriculum we would come home terribly behind. At the same time we do not want to spend four hours every morning stuck in the motorhome while Old Faithful or the Pacific Coast is calling us. Thankfully the kids and I are not prone to motion sickness so we can do some work while moving from point A to point B, but we don’t want to get lazy and keep putting it off as it will be tempting to do.
5. Emily’s headache. Emily has a condition were her body is making too much spinal fluid which has given her a constant headache since last February. This is not a migraine. There is no beginning and no end. It hurts 24/7 but with medicine we can keep it under control enough for the pain levels to be around a four or five as opposed to a nine or ten. She is very strong and does not let it stop her, but we would really like for it to go away. I am also a tiny bit concerned about getting refills on her meds three time zones away and insurances being accepted and all that stuff.
6. Weather. Okay, I’m not afraid of a little rain and we will still have fun if we do not have two whole months of sunshiny, seventy-five degree days, but it has already snowed a foot in the Wyoming and Montana area. As Emily says, “I haven’t seen that much snow in my whole life!” Seeing it would be cool. Driving in it, not so much. Ron, who is not afraid of any type driving experience did not even sound excited about it. Plus it’s cold! I mean single digits and lower cold. I’m going to need a Snuggie!
7. This is the most important: Spiritual growth. As a family in ministry it is very easy to get caught up in the work of the brick and mortar church building, and be distracted from the relationship with the One for whom the church exists. Ron will probably share more on this topic later. God has been very obviously putting the Holy Spirit in Ron’s thoughts in some pretty cool ways that hopefully he can tell you about later so we will be spending a lot of time talking about the Holy Spirit trying to listen more closely to His voice and leading.
8. Financial stuff. We are very cheap. Our vehicle gets less than 6 miles a gallon. Our Father in Heaven owns the cattle on a thousand hills, but it is hard for us to trust Him to provide for our needs. This trip will not drive us to the poor house. But money causes all kinds of stress in a marriage and we would like for that to be a non-issue on this trip.
9. It’s kind of silly, but something that puts stress on our marriage than the few times I have had to help Ron back the motorhome into a camping spot. His mathematically precise mind and my, “Oh, look, there’s a flower,” mind with absolutely no good judge of distance, it gets stressful. I don’t let him get too close to things, I usually don’t get him close enough to where he wants to be because I get scared that I won’t be able to stop him in time. So pray that we figure out a good way to communicate or Emily learns how to direct him in. Or, even better, lots of pull trough campsites. (The ones where you just pull straight in and then pull straight out.)
10. West Towne Christian Church. As with any job or organization when someone goes on vacation, sick leave, or maternity leave, everyone left has to pick up the slack. So even though there are people in place to take care of the things Ron does, they still have to take care of their own jobs. Plus one staff member will be helping a parent recover from major surgery and another one will be having a baby. Please pray that everything goes smoothly and there are no major computer issues. We appreciate them letting us go so very much and will miss everyone a lot.
I’m sure more will come up, but that is what I can think of right now.
I must give this disclaimer: The letter H on my keyboard has something under it and I’m pretty sure there may be some H’s missing. Hopefully spellcheck caught them, but some words make different words without the H so they were missed. Sorry about that!